Cakes and Rights
There is a controversy these days over whether people who
sell goods and services for weddings should be forced to provide those services
to weddings between homosexuals, irrespective of their beliefs about the
propriety of those weddings.
The first thing to do in considering the question is to look
at the principles involved. Homosexuals have the right to practice their sexual
choices with other consenting adults
without punishment or interference from any government. Homosexuals have a complete right to marry if
they want to, in ceremonies performed by
anyone willing to do so, and to attach
any meaning to the event they choose to. (So, by the way, do threesomes of
various sorts, polygamist Muslims and fringe sect Mormons, and other possible
combinations of consenting adults.) Other people have the right to think
homosexuality is wrong or perverted and to deny the validity of marriages between
homosexuals and view them as shams (just as followers of some religions view
civil marriages between heterosexuals as shams and sins). The issue of what types of marriages, if any, get a stamp of approval from the government should be a purely a political and rather irrelevant one to be decided by the usual grubby political processes.
In a free society that would be the end of it. People would
be free to hold their various opinions and go their various ways without trying
to impose their preferences or beliefs on others. However we are not that free.
Having until quite recently condemned practicing homosexuality as illegal, our
governments are now making practicing disapproval of homosexuality illegal.
(And who knows? In a few years they may switch back. Politicians are fickle
that way.) In particular governments are
forcing bakers, photographers, and others
to provide services to weddings between homosexuals whether they want to
or not. This is clearly and completely wrong. We all have a right to choose
whether or not we wish to associate with another person, and that right does
not go away because money changes hands in the interaction or because I or
anyone else might thing someone’s reasons for his choices are foolish or bigoted.
The government has no more right to force a Christian to bake and sell a
wedding cake for a pair of homosexuals than it would to force him to throw them
a bridal shower.
This raises the question of what a person who wants to work
in the bridal industry, but has scruples against participating in weddings
between homosexuals should do. One answer is simple. He could look people in the eye and lie, just as homosexuals had to look people in the eye
and lie when governments were violating their rights. He could turn the jobs down while never admitting why he did so, and make up false reasons if he needs them. There would be no ethical wrong in doing so. One
does not owe criminals or oppressors the truth. You don’t have to tell the mugger
about the extra twenty you’ve got in your shoe or the nosy cop about the gun or
contraband in your trunk or the would be thought police about your thoughts or motivations.
Labels: Gay Marriage, individual rights, politics