A Classless Act
Class and grace are widely admired attributes related to
reasonableness, strong, unstressed self-control and self-confidence,
a sense of proportion and awareness of context, and an appropriate
consideration and respect for other people. While they are seldom encountered among
politicians, it is generally accepted
that there are occasions such as the transfer of power from one president to
another when even a faked display of them is useful and expected. Most
presidents and their wives seem to have
understood this and behaved accordingly. The Obamas have been an exception.
We cannot know if Barack Obama is the most arrogant and
narcissistic president of the last seventy years since we cannot know his
predecessors’ private thoughts. However we can observe that he has consistently
behaved more arrogantly and narcissistically in public than any of the others. He often has seemed
quite unable to hide an apparent belief
that the cosmos revolves around him. He has rated himself publicly as among the greatest president of all time (always
probably a smidgen behind Lincoln and sometimes maybe nosed out by Washington
or FDR but right up there) despite his many
failures and his small and now likely mainly ephemeral set of accomplishments. His penchant
for commemorating everything and
everyone with photos of himself has become a recurring joke on the internet
as has his characteristic jaw-jutting
pose which to many is more than a little reminiscent of the Duce’s. A thing circulating recently shows official Christmas cards from presidents going back to
FDR displaying views of the White House in winter together with the official
card from Obama displaying a view of Obama.
So it is no surprise he is behaving as he is during the period
of transition to the next administration after an election in which his
policies were rejected, and his chosen successor was defeated by a crude
political amateur who was opposed by many of the leaders of his own party. He has
blamed the voters, blamed conspiracies by shifty foreigners, blamed the
few outfits in the media not staffed by his sycophants and done nothing to oppose efforts by those in his party to attack the validity and even overturn
the results of the election. He and those in his administration have gone on a pointless binge
of issuing decrees and regulations when he knows most or all of them will be
cancelled by the new president and his people. One can see reasons some people see his
behavior as a petulant desire to insult the Americans he so despises a few more
times before leaving office.
The prize for a
single act of gracelessness though must go to his wife. This woman who said she never cared for the
country until it elevated her and her husband toward the presidency and who
continually and absurdly posed as a poor
victim while occupying the White House and living remarkably opulently has chosen to leave giving the nation her variation of après nous le
deluge - explaining on national TV that
hope for the country will end with the departure of her and her husband.
For many observers the appropriate response to these two
comes from the old saying: don’t go away mad, just go away.